That's Life: New Year's in Times Square

By Phyllis McGuireiBerkshires Columnist
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will not be partying to welcome in the New Year. After a very busy Christmas week, I am content to stay home, watching TV as the world-famous ball in Times Square descends.
 
When I was a child, my sisters and I celebrated New Year's Eve by making noise that could be heard by our neighbors.  Regardless of how cold it was, Mother would open the window in our bedroom, and we kids would stand there, hitting mother's big cooking spoons against pots and pans.
 
Some years, we traveled from our apartment in the Bronx to my Aunt Lillian and Uncle Charlie's home in Astoria. There on the stroke of midnight, our cousins as well as my sisters and me would bang on pots and pans. Then my Uncle would try to persuade us to eat fish, because he believed doing so would bring good luck in the New Year.
 
We would stay overnight, my parents using the spare room, and my sisters and I occupying the convertible couch in the living room. As Uncle Charlie opened the couch into a bed, he would say, "It's good Lil bought this or you wouldn't have a place to sleep."
 
Truth be told, we suffered more than slept on that couch: It was like laying on metal rods, and we rolled back and forth searching in vain for a comfortable spot.
 
The first time I was not under my parents' watchful eyes on New Year's Eve I was two months shy of my 18th birthday. My date, Al, and I went along with my sister, Claire — five years my senior — and her beau, Bob, to a nightclub in Manhattan.
 


I felt very sophisticated as I danced at the nightclub, wearing a blue satin gown, blue satin high-heeled pumps, and a chignon at the nape of my neck.
 
Around 11 o'clock we walked to Times Square because we so wanted to count down the seconds to midnight as an illuminated ball dropped from atop One Times Square.
 
When we arrived, Times Square was already crowded with people wearing party hats and carrying balloons and noisemakers. In the crush, it was difficult to breathe. But in the cold air, tiny clouds floated from our mouths, proving we were indeed inhaling and exhaling.
 
At midnight, the crowd roared "Happy New Year." Couples kissed, some keeping their lips locked long after midnight. (Isn't love grand?)
 
As the crowd dispersed, Al hovered protectively over me to ensure that we would not become separated. Together with the rest of our group, we returned to the nightclub, where we partied until closing. Then we walked to a diner that was open 24/7 and ate breakfast, laughing and chatting between bites. My eyes were drooping as my date and Claire's beau escorted us home around 8 a.m.
 
I never again celebrated New Year's Eve at Times Square. Perhaps it is just as well, for the thrill of being there the first time could not have been matched.

 

 


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Reps. Leigh Davis, Bud Williams Filing Legislation Honoring Freeman

SHEFFIELD, Mass. — State Reps. Leigh Davis of the 3rd Berkshire District and Bud L. Williams, of the 11th Hampden District, are filing legislation establishing Aug. 22 as Elizabeth Freeman Day of Equality, Healing, and Remembrance in the commonwealth.
 
The legislation would direct the governor to annually issue a proclamation recognizing the courageous contributions of Elizabeth Freeman, an enslaved Black woman known as Mum Bett, whose landmark freedom suit helped spark the legal end of slavery in Massachusetts.
 
"Elizabeth Freeman's story began here in the Berkshires, but its impact reached every corner of the commonwealth," said Davis. "More than two centuries later, her legacy continues to inspire us. Establishing Elizabeth Freeman Day will ensure that future generations learn not only about her extraordinary bravery, but also about the power of one person to change the course of history."
 
In 1781, Freeman, of Sheffield at the time, challenged the institution of slavery by filing suit against her enslaver, Col. John Ashley. In the landmark case Brom and Bett v. Ashley, a Berkshire County jury ruled in favor of Freeman and her fellow plaintiff, Brom, granting them their freedom. The case demonstrated the power of the Massachusetts Constitution's declaration that all people are born free and equal and helped pave the way for the Quock Walker decisions that ultimately ended slavery in the commonwealth. 
 
"Freeman's courage changed the course of history in Massachusetts," said Williams. "At a time when the odds were stacked against her, she stood up and demanded that the promises of liberty and equality contained in our Constitution apply to her as well. She risked everything to challenge an unjust system, and her victory helped lay the foundation for the end of slavery in our commonwealth. Her legacy deserves to be recognized and remembered by every resident of Massachusetts."
 
Although unable to read or write, Freeman understood the meaning of freedom and equality and took extraordinary action to secure those rights for herself and others. Her story remains one of the most powerful examples of individual courage in the face of injustice. 
 
Elizabeth Freeman Day will provide an opportunity for reflection, education, healing, and remembrance, said Williams. 
 
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