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Hundreds Attend Memorial For North Adams Soldier

By Tammy DanielsiBerkshires Staff
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Hundreds of candles were placed to illuminate 'Thank You Mike' on the Drury High School parking lot on Sunday night. More photos here.
NORTH ADAMS, Mass. — Hundreds of area residents converged Sunday night at Drury High School to remember one of its graduates: Army Pfc. Michael DeMarsico.

The remembrance drew upwards of 500 people, many of them former classmates or friends of the 20-year-old DeMarsico, who was killed Thursday by a roadside bomb in Afghanistan.

"It was a small plan that turned into a big, big outcome," said Michael Reardon of the memorial he and Robert Grandchamp had planned for their friend. "There was a lot more people than we thought would show up. Michael would have loved it."

Friends gathered in the lower parking lot at the high school on Church Street to write "Thank You Mike" in bold chalk letters on the pavement. A saluting soldier and the traditional boots, gun, helmet symbolizing the fallen soldier "cross" was drawn below it.

The hushed crowd placed hundreds of votive candles around the letters to illuminate them as music such as "Proud to be an American" played. The solemn memorial was punctuated by soft sobs, and as the illumination was completed, the mourners waved small American flags and held aloft candles.

Reardon and Grandchamp said they wanted to be strong for Mike's family, and support them.

"It's made it a little easier to go through, just seeing all the ones who came," said Grandchamp. "He would have wanted everyone to remember him with a smile on his face, not feeling sorry for him."

The word hero is tossed around a lot, said the Rev. David Anderson of First Baptist Church, who was asked to address the gathering. "Tonight I think we're reminded of the reality that there is a level of hero that goes beyond anything we've come to understand in our day-to-day lives here in our homes.

"There are those heroes who aspire to serve their country nobly, to travel to desolate places for no other reason than to protect who we are and what we have."

DeMarsico's parents, Michael and Lisa DeMarsico, and his siblings were presented with a large bouquet of red, white and blue balloons covered with "thank yous" and messages to the young soldier. The family lit a votive attached to the bouquet and released it into the heavens.

One of his cousins spoke of how Mike had become more like a brother, and how he loved and missed him.

Chris Grandchamp, Robert's brother, said the two had passed by each other throughout their young lives and had kept in touch after DeMarsico entered the service two years ago.

"He was never down, never negative about what he was doing, always positive," said Grandchamp. "I didn't think this would happen this early in his life, in anybody's life."

Mike's aunt Laurie Douglas moved through the crowd hugging and thanking those who attended.

"He's touched a lot of lives," she said. "He's not gone, he's not forgotten, he's in the breath we take, the air all around us. He loves each and everyone one of you."


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New Eagle Street Shop Has the Perfect Toppers

By Breanna SteeleiBerkshires Staff

Tip Top Hats sells Patricia Welch's handmade designs and more commercial products at lower prices. 

NORTH ADAMS, Mass. — The city has a millinery for the first time in more than 40 years. 

Patricia Welch, who has more than 60 years of hatmaking experience, recently opened Tip Top Hats at 16 Eagle St.

Welch said she has always been fascinated by hats and has seen many fashion trends. She's particularly interested in the mod movement.

"It's just something that I have a facility for and have been doing for so long, it's kind of second nature," she said. "It's over 60 years since I’ve been making hats, not all the time, but on and off for a long, long time. So I had a lot of life experience to draw from. I've seen many, many fashions come and go. Being a child of the '60s, I was heavily influenced by the mod movement, fashion movement, and it has stuck with me all these years."

Welch previously owned a shop in Gloucester before moving to New York in the late 1990s. Her work has been featured in juried shows and she's done design consulting.

While she worked in engineering and exhibiting designs, she always made her hats. It all started when she was 13 years old and had to solve a problem.

"I used to go riding on motorcycles with no hat on, no helmet, and your hair would get terribly knotted up," Welch said. "So the first time I made a hat, it was kind of a little bonnet of cotton that just tied under my chin, and it was just to keep my hair from getting tied in knots by the wind."

She came across the "for rent" sign on storefront in May and made a decision she would like to occupy it. She opened on July 1 during First Friday.  She said it was a great way for her to get out of retirement.

"Kind of impulsive, but you know I'm not young, and tired of being retired, basically," Welch said. "So this is a wonderful, fun experience, and I think it'll bring more to Eagle Street."

Millinery shops were a mainstay of women's and men's fashion well into the 1960s. At one time, North Adams had three or four independent millinery shops plus departments in some of its stores, like Roberts Co. and the Boston Store.

They began closing down in the 1960s because of owners' retirements or deaths, dislocation because of urban renewal, and changing fashions. The last ones were the Style Shoppe and Hollywood Millinery (then Hollywood Fashions) in the early 1980s. 

Welch has hats made from straw, fake fur, wool, leather, and more. Her designs can take hours to complete.

"I start by having an idea in mind for the style that I want to work on, and then I'll pull from my textiles and make a selection that would all work nicely together, so that I can I can make a particular style using various textiles from the same group, so it becomes a collection rather than just a random bunch of hats," she said.

She wants to have something for everyone, and since her one-of-a-kind hats can be pricey, she has  commercially hats that are moderately priced.

"Typically in finishing a hat, there's handwork, which is why they become more expensive. Because some hats I spend well, literally hours on," she said.

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