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Robert T. Kove, 85

Robert Theodore Kove, 85, of Sandy Spring, Md., died peacefully in his sleep on January 27, 2020.

Bob was born on May 8, 1934 in Albany, N.Y., to Theodore and Dorothy (Vani) Kove.

Bob was a loving husband and father. He gave Paula, his wife, total devotion and decades of cheerful companionship. He taught his daughters decency, integrity, perseverance, and optimism — values that continue to shape who they are as people and mothers.

Bob graduated from Albany High School in 1952, where he was a standout athlete in baseball and football. Sports would continue to be an integral part of his life.

He graduated from Siena College in 1956 with a degree in chemistry. Upon graduation, Bob entered the Marine Officer Candidate School at Quantico, Va. He served in the U.S. Marine Corps Air Station at El Toro (Santa Ana), Calif., until being honorably discharged as a first lieutenant in December 1959. He joined the 42nd Rifle Co USMCR in Pittsfield, Mass., and served until 1968, attaining a final rank of captain. He was grateful for the camaraderie and the enduring lessons in honor and perseverance.

Bob began work at Sprague Electric in 1960 in North Adams as a process engineer. He soon decided to switch careers and become a teacher. Bob graduated with a masters in education from North Adams State College and worked for 32 years as a respected and much-loved math teacher at Drury High School. Bob was a dedicated educator who never forgot a student's name.

He was involved outside of the classroom as well — assisting the Drury track and baseball teams. Players still remember the high fungoes he would hit to the outfield — a skill he retained into his 70s.

It was in graduate school that he met Paula Murray. They wed in April 1963 at St. Francis Church. Paula and Bob settled in Clarksburg, Mass., where Bob designed and built the house in which they would live and raise their family for over 50 years.

In addition to his intellectual, athletic and carpentry skills, Robert was a talented amateur artist. When Bob retired from teaching, he enjoyed working at the Williams College Museum of Art.

Upon retirement, Bob and Paula traveled abroad. The most unusual and exciting journey was a trip with their daughter Jennifer to visit their daughter Pamela in Greece. The family traveled across the Pindus mountains in northwestern Greece to stay with cousins in the town of Korce, Albania. As the Cold War wound down, they had to traverse a checkpoint on the heavily guarded Albanian border. Being very proud of his Albanian heritage, Bob especially delighted in recounting that eventful trip.

Bob had a big heart and a love of storytelling. He genuinely liked people and enjoyed talking to anyone. He admired Frederic Remington's art, Hank Williams' songs, and good martinis.

He is survived by his wife Paula of Sandy Springs, Md.; daughter Jennifer Rose and her husband Eric of Ashland, Mass., and daughter Pamela Maher and her husband Daniel of Ashton, Md.; brother Tim of Albany; sister Cynthia Humphrey and her husband Steve of South Carolina; and sister-in-law Ruth Connors and her husband Daniel of Deep River, Conn. He also leaves grandchildren Rebecca and Brian of Ashland, Mass., and Jackson Robert and Mason Iris of Ashton, Md.; and nieces and nephews.

He was predeceased by his parents, Theodore and Dorothy Kove of Albany, N.Y.; and his sister Anita of Kingston, Mass.

Funeral notice: Memorial donations may be made to the AYJ Fund. A Liturgy of Christian Burial for Bob Kove will be celebrated Friday, February 7, 2020, at 11 a.m. at St. Elizabeth of Hungary Church. Burial with military honors will follow in Southview cemetery. Calling hours will be Thursday, February 6, 2020, from 4 to 7 p.m. at FLYNN & DAGNOLI-MONTAGNA HOME FOR FUNERALS WEST CHAPELS, 521 West Main St. North Adams, Mass. To add to the Book of Memories, please visit www.flynndagnolifuneralhomes.com.


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Best homeroom teacher EVER!
Always kind, caring and professional.
from: Donna Bernardi Briggson: 02-08-2020

Mrs Kove and family
It was my pleasure to have Mr. Kove as my home room teacher my four years at Drury. He was not only a wonderful role model but also someone I enjoyed talking with. I have missed our chats at Big Y as well. May his life be a comfort to you in this sad time. He will not be forgotten by this grateful student.
from: Deborah peirceon: 02-08-2020

People sometimes forget how you make the world better one kind act at a time, one person at a time. Knowing how modest and self-effacing Bob was, he probably seldom thought that what he did every day was anything special. But it was. What a nice guy he was!
from: Bob Scrivenson: 02-07-2020

I'm a 1968 graduate of Drury. Mr. Kove was clearly my favorite teacher during those four years. A very caring person.
from: Marianne Rossi Schieferon: 02-02-2020

RIP, Sir ... Mr. Kove was a major influence in my life. He helped me realize I could succeed in academics, his teaching techniques opened my mind. I, too, vividly recall Bob smashing fungoes to the outfielders down at Noel Field. After I turned in my spikes and glove forever, my teaching career began. I mimicked his interactive model using dialogue to encourage and assure success. God bless you, Mr. Kove ... Thank you for all you did for me.
from: Bob Gallagheron: 02-02-2020

So sad to hear of Mr. Kove's passing. He was one of the best and most caring teachers in the North Adams Schools. Co silences to the Kove family.
from: Connie Yorkeon: 02-02-2020

Paula and Family,
I'm so very sorry to hear of Mr. Kove passing. He was such a nice man, always happy and personable. Deepest condolences to you all. I hope all those wonderful memories help bring you peace in the days ahead.
from: Erica (Dami) Pecoron: 02-01-2020

Sincere condolences to the family. Remember him fondly as a teacher who made you love his math classes....Drury class of '64.
from: Donna Banyas (Ballou)on: 02-01-2020

I am very sorry to hear of his passing, he was an inspiration to so many students. Always cheerful and helpful, a great teacher and role model.
from: Neil Oleson (Drury 1969)on: 02-01-2020

Paula, I am heart broken to hear of Bob’s passing. Please know that I am thinking of you. God bless you both.
from: Patricia Chandleron: 01-31-2020

I am very sorry to hear of the passing of a great educator. As one of Mr. Kove's former trigonometry students (Drury 1975) I remember well his jingles and catch phrases for us 18 year olds to remember. I still recall 45 years later and use sporadically ; Oscar Had a Heap of Apples and SOACAHTOA. Mr. Kove's "A Chart he called Handy Dandy" which he eluded to our class every day became forever etched in our minds. He was a great inspiration to all of us.
from: Teddy Hopkinson: 01-31-2020

Very sorry to hear of one of the most positive and engaging teachers at Drury. I thought if him often since graduation 45 years ago and cant forget so many of his sayings including “2 pi, 2 pi, it’s a piece of cake.”
from: Bruce Whitneyon: 01-31-2020

Mrs. Kove and family, please accept my heartfelt prayers and sympathies. As a DHS alumnus I have fond memories of my time in Mr. Kove’s Class and I still (as a teacher myself) use some of the memory tricks that he taught us. He was always kind and concerned about us as people not just as students and for this I for one will remember him always. May he RIP.
from: Judy Licht on: 01-30-2020

Mrs. Kove and Family, I extend my heartfelt sympathy to you in the loss of Mr. Kove. As a DHS graduate, I was blessed to have been a student in Mr. Kove's math class. He was an exemplary role model and true gentleman. We have all been blessed by his life and share in your sadness. You are in my prayers.
from: Brenda J Wilsonon: 01-30-2020

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