Benefit Set to Bring 'Cuddle Buddy' Comfort to Sick Kids

By Tammy DanielsiBerkshires Staff
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Meghan Schrade, 2, with her cuddle bears.
NORTH ADAMS, Mass. — It started with a couple's desire to share the comfort their ailing baby daughter found in a plush creature with a couple other sick children.

Then it was a dozens more ill toddlers at Children's Hospital; a year later, it was friends and family scouring Wal-Marts near and far to send 90 of the Carter's Snuggle Buddies to the Boston medical center's cardiac unit.

This year, Tracy Bassette and William G. Schrade Jr. are hoping to make the donation an annual event with a benefit dance at the American Legion on Saturday night.

"Our goal is to get over a 100 of the 'cuddle buddies,'" said Schrade. "Every year we want to exceed what we did the year before."

The drive for the "buddies," part stuffed animal, part blanket, came about because of Meghan Schrade's unexpected, and frightening, trips to the hospital shortly after she was born.

She was born at North Adams Regional Hospital on May 4, 2006, and almost immediately transported to first Baystate Medical Center and then to Children's Hospital because of a serious heart condition. She went through open-heart surgery and has had pacemakers installed keep her little heart beating properly. She's now a thriving 2 1/2-year-old.

Bassette said Meghan's Snuggle Buddy bear, her "gi-gi" bear, "played a crucial role in consoling our Meghan the Magnificent, as many call her. She has taken her bear into every surgery she has had and it has been admitted to each and every hospital visit."

The first buddy was offered to a little boy whose family couldn't be with him in Boston. The nurses had given him a stuffed baseball, but it wasn't really something he could cuddle, said Schrade. "What people don't realize, and we saw it firsthand, some of these kids come to the hospital with absolutely nothing."

The next year, friends delivered a big basket of the buddies and Bassette met a woman whose infant granddaughter was in the intensive care unit with breathing difficulties.

"So I grabbed a pink 'cuddle buddy' and asked her to give it to her special angel," she said. "This woman, who did not know me from the next person, sobbed and hugged me so very tight while I whispered a few words of encouragement from a parent that had gone through something similar. If we can help even a couple of children find some comfort during what certainly is the scariest time many experience — the price of a cuddle buddy is insignificant."

The hospital gives blankets and stuffed animals to the children but the couple want to help those donations as a way of giving back, particularly to the cardiac care unit.

"What Children's Hospital did for us you can never repay," said Schrade. "It's absolutely priceless."

Tickets for the dance are $10; all proceeds will go to the cause. Doors open at 7 p.m. for snacks and raffles and dancing begins at 8 to DJ Carmen LaCasse of Final Destination Entertainment and popular local band BootLeg. 

Wal-Mart is working with the family to get them enough of the buddies at a good rate. "Wal-Mart has been very gracious to us," said Schrade.

Rounding up first 60 and then last year 90 buddies hasn't been easy. It's meant stopping at any Wal-Mart they were near, hunting down the plush creatures

"We've cleaned them out over the last several years," he said. "That's kind of the fun journey part. It's made it quite interesting."
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Berkshire County Homes Celebrating Holiday Cheer

By Breanna SteeleiBerkshires Staff

There's holiday cheer throughout the Berkshires this winter.

Many homeowners are showing their holiday spirit by decorating their houses. We asked for submissions so those in the community can check out these fanciful lights and decor when they're out.

We asked the homeowners questions on their decorations and why they like to light up their houses.

In Great Barrington, Matt Pevzner has decorated his house with many lights and even has a Facebook page dedicated to making sure others can see the holiday joy.

Located at 93 Brush Hill Road, there's more than 61,000 lights strewn across the yard decorating trees and reindeer and even a polar bear. 

The Pevzner family started decorating in September by testing their hundreds of boxes of lights. He builds all of his own decorations like the star 10-foot star that shines done from 80-feet up, 10 10-foot trees, nine 5-foot trees, and even the sleigh, and more that he also uses a lift to make sure are perfect each year.

"I always decorated but I went big during COVID. I felt that people needed something positive and to bring joy and happiness to everyone," he wrote. "I strive to bring as much joy and happiness as I can during the holidays. I love it when I get a message about how much people enjoy it. I've received cards thanking me how much they enjoyed it and made them smile. That means a lot."

Pevzner starts thinking about next year's display immediately after they take it down after New Year's. He gets his ideas by asking on his Facebook page for people's favorite decorations. The Pevzner family encourages you to take a drive and see their decorations, which are lighted every night from 5 to 10.

In North Adams, the Wilson family decorates their house with fun inflatables and even a big Santa waving to those who pass by.

The Wilsons start decorating before Thanksgiving and started decorating once their daughter was born and have grown their decorations each year as she has grown. They love to decorate as they used to drive around to look at decorations when they were younger and hope to spread the same joy.

"I have always loved driving around looking at Christmas lights and decorations. It's incredible what people can achieve these days with their displays," they wrote.

They are hoping their display carries on the tradition of the Arnold Family Christmas Lights Display that retired in 2022.

The Wilsons' invite you to come and look at their display at 432 Church St. that's lit from 4:30 to 10:30 every night, though if it's really windy, the inflatables might not be up as the weather will be too harsh.

In Pittsfield, Travis and Shannon Dozier decorated their house for the first time this Christmas as they recently purchased their home on Faucett Lane. The two started decorating in November, and hope to bring joy to the community.

"If we put a smile on one child's face driving by, then our mission was accomplished," they said. 

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