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The annual Berkshire Pride Parade and Festival took place on Saturday in Pittsfield.

Berkshire Pride Festival Emits Love, Urges Creation of Better World

By Sabrina DammsiBerkshires Staff
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Erika Allison speaks to the crowd at the Berkshire Pride Festival on Saturday. See more photos here. 
PITTSFIELD, Mass. — The sun rose high on Saturday afternoon giving the LGBTQIA-plus community a chance to be prideful of who they are and to celebrate differences.
 
Queer interfaith minister, author, and spiritual counselor Erika Allison spoke of the "somber" state of the world that has hindered the rights of individuals. 
 
"I don't need to tell you that we are living in sobering times. Ongoing attacks on trans rights from every angle, shocking initiatives to place archaic controls on women and their bodies, puzzling bans on acknowledging the very existence of our community, manipulative dictators attacking and oppressing other countries, and of course the tragic loss of human lives due to gun violence and our inadequate mental health support system," she said to the gathering.  
 
"And this doesn't even include the violence and injustices happening daily that doesn't make the news headlines due to culturalized norms and systemic racism, and the violence to animals on our planet."
 
Hundreds of community members gathered along Eagle Street and Fenn Street as they applauded businesses and individuals marching in the annual parade with rainbow embellishments to the Common for the Berkshire Pride Festival. 
 
One resident said it was a wonderful sight to see how large the parade and festival has grown over the years and that when it first started there was not nearly as many people. 
 
During Allison's speech, she expressed the trauma she had to overcome from enduring conversion therapy because of the belief systems that her Texas family had. The controversial treatment uses prayer or psychological pressure in an attempt to "cure" gay people and has been outlawed in 20 states including Massachusetts and all of New England. 
 
Although her family loved her, their religious beliefs could not comprehend the existence of a gay person, Allison said. 
 
"As I was sent into conversion therapy to 'pray my gay away,' I was overwhelmed with feelings of confusion and powerlessness. How could people who love me reject the core of who I am in such a deep and painful way?" she said.
 
This experience led her down a path of seeking acceptance from others until she learned from her experiences to finally love herself. 
 
"When we attempt to handle the complex dissonance of the world from our minds alone, we take actions from fear. I was terrified then. I kept my heart closed because I couldn't bear to be hurt any further," Allison said. "And if I'm honest, I can see how I caused as much harm as I was attempting to avoid at that time in my life." 
 
Allison expressed hope for a better future in her speech and said the LGBTQIA-plus community is being called to lead a "shifting and crumbling" system. 
 
"Now, over 20 years later, I've gone from that scared kid who was forced into conversion therapy to change my truth to the pillar of strength and joy for my aging parents as they question their own beliefs and expand into truer versions of themselves" she said. "For those who are identified with these systems, it feels like death. We know this journey. We have experienced the crumbling of a heteronormative system of identity before our very eyes as we awakened to the truth of who we are."
 
Being able to walk through their fear and come out the other side knowing who they are and being more vibrant than before despite the messages around them is the "superpower that many wish they had," she said.
 
She told the audience to place their hands on their hearts and take a deep breath so they can take a moment to feel their aliveness through the chaotic sounds of the festival.
 
This sentiment reverberated across the entire common: a couple set up a sign saying "Free Mom Hugs" and strangers in need of hugs came to be embraced while others walked up to strangers to compliment on them on their beauty. 
 
The festival also featured vendors, music and song, belly dancers, and drag performers.
 
"My friends, our lives are a masterpiece of unapologetic truth and unlimited possibility. Live your truth. Shine your vibrant light," Allison said. "Change the world from the inside out. And you will give others permission to do the same." 

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ADOPTED! Companion Corner: Cali and Kyzer at Berkshire Humane Society

By Breanna SteeleiBerkshires Staff

Great news, Kyzer and Cali found a home for Christmas already! Still looking for a new friend for the holidays? There are plenty of dogs and cats and small animals at Berkshire Humane who would love to go home with you.

PITTSFIELD, Mass. — There's a bonded dog pair awaiting a new family at the Berkshire Humane Society.

Kyzer and Cali are both poodles. Kyzer is the male and is 7 years old, a quite a bit bigger than his sister Cali, who is a miniature of Kyzer and 8 years old.

Canine adoption counselor Rhonda Cyr introduced us to the two.

"They came from a household that couldn't hold on to them, and it sounds like they may have been abandoned by their previous owner with somebody else, and so they came to us looking for a new home," she said.

The two love to be around you and snuggle. But both are very happy dogs.

"Kyzer is 7 years old, and his personality is that he kind of wants to be in everything. He's very loving, very snuggly, as you can tell. And Callie here, she's 8 years old, and she is kind of like the life of the party," said Cyr. "She wants to tell you everything about her day, and she's a little bit of a little ham."

The two are considered seniors and really like soft treats as Cali just had a few teeth removed and Kyzer has a tooth procedure coming up.

"Currently, they really like soft treats, because they are both on the senior side of things. So they have had some dental work, so they are really in need of something softer. They are not big chewers at this age, really, their main focus right now is just really socializing and cuddling," Cyr said.

The two would love a quiet home with someone who wants to snuggle. They shouldn't go to a home with bigger dogs but if you have a dog, you can bring them in for a visitation with the poodles to see if they will get along. Cats will be fine and the preference is for older and more responsible children so that the pups don't get hurt, as they are senior citizens.

"The perfect home for them would be a quiet home that's not too active. Like I said, they're very social, so they could handle some visitors," she said. "They're very friendly, but I don't think that they would really enjoy any other dogs in the home."

Poodles need to be regularly groomed, and the prospective adopter will have to keep an eye on their health. Kyzer has a heart murmur that needs to be monitored. This doesn't mean he is in bad health, as he could live a perfectly normal life, but he will need to be checked by a veterinary specialist routinely.

"Ideally, he would go to a home that could provide further health care with a specialist in cardiac care. And you know, he could very well live out the rest of his life comfortably and happy," Cyr said. "We just don't have all that information at the moment, but I think that you know the way he's going right now. He's got a good spirit, and he seems to be pretty happy."

The shelter is hoping the to get them a home for the holidays.

"We would love to get them a home in time for the holidays. They've been here since the eighth of November, and they're really, really looking as much as the staff loves them here, we're really looking to get them into a home and somewhere nice and cozy so they can spend the rest of their life together," she said.

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