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Kurt A. Van Steemburg

Kurt Arthur Van Steemburg of Loudonville, NY, died on Tuesday, March 3, 2026. He was 72. Our beloved husband, dad, and friend crossed over in the wake of a lunar eclipse. Quite the send off for quite the man.

Born in North Adams, MA on October 11, 1953, Kurt grew up cradled in the majesty of Mount Greylock and in the magical Berkshires woods. The middle child of five, he was a natural athlete and gifted scholar. He was a graduate of Drury High School in 1971. As a young man, a series of events changed the course of his future forever: he matriculated at Williams College in 1971; his parents each died unexpectedly, first his father Arthur Van Steemburg in 1972, and then his mother Lorraine (Murray) Van Steemburg in 1973; and he met the great love of his life, our mother Jinx (Virginia Wall Van Steemburg) of Williamstown, MA, to whom he was devoted for 53 years. He found comfort, adventure, and love in his Williams community and in Jinx at a time of deep and profound loss. He bled purple through and through.

He enjoyed 40 years in the paper business, beginning at SD Warren and then as Vice President of Hudson Valley Paper Co. in Albany, NY. Since he could never take a day off from work, he held a retirement job at Comfortex manufacturing in Cohoes, NY. He completed business with integrity and a respect for every colleague. Our dad didn’t move mountains, build empires, or save lives. But he did live by a code: treat people with kindness and fairness. Never let the sun set on anger. No whining or self pity. Lend a hand to your neighbor. And above all, as his grandfather Neil said, “Live life as it should be, not as it is.” We have been deeply affected to hear from his friends, and colleagues near and far, old and new, about the ways he made a difference in each of your lives. No sweeping gestures, no illusions of grandeur. Just a boy, a man, who tried to be good to others in small ways, every day until his last.

He enjoyed simple, quiet pleasures in life: the warmth and softness of a cashmere sweater, a single malt on the rocks. Hugging his loved ones and cutting a rug on the dance floor. The art of conversation and the pursuit of knowledge. The majesty of a hawk in flight and the sparkle of a campfire. Spying every eagle’s nest along the train ride to NYC. Asking questions and being genuinely interested in your answer. A glass of fresh squeezed orange juice, a hot fudge sundae. The trust that duct tape and a pocket knife can get you out of any jam. The precision of inlaying a piece of cherry wood into maple. The camaraderie of his Friday morning men’s spiritual group at St. Pius. Trimming his signature mustache. He had a quick, dry wit and the biggest heart. He was unselfish, patient, and loyal.

Kurt’s church was the great outdoors. He could ride a horse like the wind, and a shared love of horses kept him close to many of the people he loved including Jinx, her parents and his sisters-in-law. His hiking boots carried him up and down trails in some of the most beautiful places on this earth. His waders keeping him dry in countless streams; rainbow trout feared him. Just a few months before he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, Kurt completed a pilgrimage along the Camino de Santiago. He hiked the 1000 km trek from France to Spain in honor of his two dear Williams College Morgan West friends, Bart Nourse and David Terkla who predeceased him. When we asked him what he learned along the way, he answered simply: “I’ve had a lot of time to think about it, and I’ve decided that maple walnut is the best flavor of ice cream.”

We asked him if he gets to another place, can he please send us a sign. He responded “If have time. They might keep me real busy up there, no idea how long orientation will take.” He was always on the move, driven by a hunger to squeeze every drop out of life, and we expect nothing less in his death.

He is survived by his wife, Jinx, and his three children Peter, Kristin and Skylar Van Steemburg; daughters-in-law Whitney White and Lilly Zuckerman; grandchildren Paige and Reed Van Steemburg; siblings Jane (William) Van Steemburg Bryce, Peter (Sheila) Van Steemburg, and Susan (Marty) Van Steemburg Oliveri; and an entire gaggle of beloved nieces, nephews, and cousins. He is predeceased by his sister Karen Van Steemburg Briggs and his parents Art and Lorraine.

His survivors are indebted to the incredible people of the Community Hospice, who loved and cared for him both at home and at the St. Peter’s Hospice Inn through the last months of his life. We are forever grateful to each and every one of you who treated Kurt with dignity and respect.

Calling hours will be held at the Argus Hotel (8 Thurlow Terrace, Albany, NY 12203) on Sunday, March 8, 2026 from 1-4pm. A celebration of life will follow this summer. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to any of the following organizations in Kurt’s honor: Albany Rural Cemetery where Kurt sat on the board of trustees; Community Caregivers where he volunteered running errands for his elderly neighbors; Capital Roots whose community garden in Menands nurtured his body and spirit; or St. Vincent de Paul food pantry where he volunteered stocking shelves and delivering food. To add to the Book of Memories, please visit flynndagnolifuneralhomes.com.

 


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We are so enriched, for knowing someone of such great grace, courage, wisdom...and for 55 years. Heartfelt condolences to the family, with thanks for sharing him so generously. Peter and Lisa Hillman
from: on: 03-10-2026

My heartfelt condolences to you all. What a beautiful tribute to your husband, father, brother and uncle. I hope the special memories you have help comfort you in the days ahead. I'm sure Karen welcomed her brother with loving arms.
from: Erica Pecoron: 03-09-2026

Dear Families, I'm so sorry for your loss. I remember Kurt being a great guy, with great family. Sending Comfort.
from: Janet M Berryon: 03-09-2026

Jane,Pete, Sue and family, Sorry to hear of Kurt's passing. Sending love and healing thoughts to all! RIP Kurt!
from: Robin Coodyon: 03-09-2026

Dear Sue and family, So very sorry to hear of Kurt's passing. Sending our condolences and prayers ?
from: Terry & Phil Vivorion: 03-09-2026

Dear Jane and family, We are so sorry to hear this news. We know you were very instrumental in his life. Our prayers are with you.
from: Kathy and Brian McLarenon: 03-09-2026

To his beautiful family, friends and all the lives he touched… such a great loss of such a very special man.. he will be remembered always with a smile and my sincere sorrow and prayers are send to each of you
from: Cheryl Lefaveon: 03-09-2026

To the entire Van Steenburg family.
Our deepest sympathies. There aren’t words when you loose a beloved family member. Grief is the sign of deep love and I know he had that. May memories bring you peace and joy.
from: Cheryl Starr Boillaton: 03-09-2026

Sorry for your loss.
from: Michael McKeonon: 03-09-2026

Dear Jane, Pete and Sue… sorry to hear the passing of Kurt…my thoughts and prayers are with you
from: Jeffrey Rougeauon: 03-09-2026

Thinking of Kurt brings back fond memories of a great classmate and athlete. My best wishes to his family. Passing early can only mean this is someone the Lord wanted to have close to him right away. Rest in peace, Kurt.
from: Dick Pevoskion: 03-09-2026

Sue and Family, we are sorry for the loss of your brother. May he rest in peace.
from: Angie and Len Girouxon: 03-08-2026

Dear Jane, Peter and Sue, I am so sorry to hear of Kurt's passing. I remember him so fondly, hanging out at our house with Art, eating my Mom's toll house cookies and teasing me relentlessly, and always with a smile.
Nicky DelNegro-Jozefiak
from: nicole delnegro-jozefiakon: 03-08-2026

Great guy! Good classmate and athlete. Rest in peace Kurt!
from: Tony Nuvallieon: 03-07-2026

Sorry to hear of Kurt's passing. We went all through school together from kindergarten until Drury graduation. He always had a smile that could brighten your day. Hoping the memories will make this difficult time a little easier. Prayers are with you. Kurt...RIP old friend.
from: SYLVIA M KINGon: 03-07-2026

To Jinx (and family:) I met Kurt in 1971 at Drury, then with Phil Less we three went down the road to Williams. Through all these years, your beautiful wedding 1975, seeing your family grow, and staying in touch with you and his Williams “Band of Brothers” has been a great treat in life. Your partnership with him through life and especially this last year has been a model for us all. We are all grateful he was a part of our lives.
from: Martha Coakleyon: 03-07-2026

Sorry to hear of Curt’s passing. He was a family friend and neighbor who will be missed by many. God Bless
from: Tom Maharon: 03-07-2026

Jane,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Seems Kurt led a very full life. Sincere condolences to his family.
from: Diane Parsonson: 03-06-2026

A lovingly, beautiful and eloquent tribute to a wonderful man. Our sincerest condolences to the Vansteemburg family.
Deb and Jimmy Simon
from: Jimmy Simon on: 03-06-2026

My deepest condolences, thoughts and prayers ?
from: Dennis Frank Manganoon: 03-06-2026

Our deepest condolences to Kurt’s family .He had a full life and loving family….
from: Rick and Linda Williamson: 03-06-2026

My profound condolences to the Van Steemburg and Wall families. Although I only knew Kurt briefly he made a lasting impression. Thoughts and prayers during this time for Sue, Jane, Peter and Bill.
from: David Peterson: 03-06-2026

So sorry for your loss. Kurt was a great guy.
from: Tom Elderon: 03-06-2026

Dear Jinx & Family, I am so very saddened to read about Kurt. Please accept my sincerest condolences.
from: Kathleen Toohey Carboneon: 03-06-2026

Our prayers to all of you on Kurt’s passing. May wonderful memories of happy times give you Peace and Healing.
from: John and Linda Nevilleon: 03-06-2026

Kurt was a 1971 classmate. So sorry to learn of his passing.He wS a great guy! God Bless!
from: Sandra Miranteon: 03-06-2026

Kurt was a lucky man indeed! He certainly lived a full life and raised a loving family. His children’s eloquent tribute to their dad has moved me to commend them here—after I express my heartfelt condolences to them.
from: Chris (Peters) Harton: 03-06-2026

I'm very sad to hear of Kurts passing. It always brought a smile to my face when I saw or visited my cousins. A warm and wonderful family growing up and into the ages. Time and distance haven't extinguished my memories of the love and friendship we've enjoyed. Until we meet again, Kurt, RIP.
from: Dan Bergeronon: 03-06-2026

What a great loss for your family and for this world. He was a dear friend from days at Dutch Hill through Drury high school and even his wedding to you the lovely jinx. May his memory always be a blessing. With love.
from: Jane Milleron: 03-06-2026

Kurt will always hold a very special place in my heart. He brought his unique gift to everything that he did and made those of us who knew him smile when in his presence. He certainly made my high school years more fun. We worked on " Field Day" together so, needless to say, it was anything but WORK! My most sincere condolences go out to Jinx and his entire family. I'll continue to pray for Kurt and hopefully all of your best memories of him will bring some measure of peace to all of you. Rest In Peace, dear friend.
from: Debra Johnsonon: 03-05-2026

I was so sorry to read about the recent passing of Kurt. We grew up in the same neighborhood and he was always such a kind person. Sincere condolences to his entire family.
from: MARY ELLEN Eliasenon: 03-05-2026

Sad to read this Kurt was always a kind person as a friend in out younger days I always loved the name all I can say is we lost a Great Man prayers and thoughts to the family and friends Ronnie Nippy Hart
from: on: 03-05-2026

Drury class of 1971 was a special class. Having Kurt in our class made it extra special. It was always a great pleasure to see Kurt at our reunions. He will be missed dearly at our 55th this year. My deepest condolences to Kurt's family at this difficult time.
Bill Flaherty
from: Bill Flahertyon: 03-05-2026

What a beautiful tribute. I didn't know Kurt but knowing his siblings, I am sure he was a wonderful person. Please accept my sincere sympathy. May memories warm your heart and bring smiles to you all. Take care
from: Karen Lefaveon: 03-05-2026

Dear Family of Kurt, I was so very sorry to hear of his passing. While he was a bit older than I was, I remember him in high school. He and my brother David were friends and I hope they meet up together in heaven since David is there. I pray that the wonderful memories you have of Kurt will help to comfort you all during the days to come. May he rest in peace and may you take comfort in the fact that he was well loved.
from: Carla (Daugherty) Holnesson: 03-05-2026

Rest in peace, Kurt.
from: Mary Ronanon: 03-05-2026

Dear family, I very sadden with lost of Kurt passing. He was a great friend in high school with many fond memories, especially in the parking lot at friendly. My prayers are with you all.
from: Nanette schmidton: 03-05-2026

Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss.
from: Paul Dupuison: 03-05-2026

My hearts and prayers go out to the Van Steemburg family.
Dave Emery
from: Daveon: 03-05-2026

In the course of a teaching career, some students stand out as being academically proficient AND a wonderful person. Kurt was one of those. I knew him a long time ago; that time has passed and taken him away is an uneasy quality of life. But I am sure that he's equally as good in whatever next life he has chosen. RIP Kurt...I hope we meet again.
from: Skeets Richardson: 03-05-2026

Jane, Peter, & Susan, my thoughts and prayers are with you and all of the VanSteemburg family. May special memories help to bring you comfort in the days ahead. Rest in Peace Kurt.
from: Heather(Corsi)Lemoineon: 03-04-2026

Jinx and family I’m so sorry for your loss. See him with Carey back together. Keep him and you in my thoughts and prayers
from: Ed Dassatti on: 03-04-2026

What a beautiful testament for a wonderful man! If every man was modeled after Kurt, the world would certainly be a better place. We shared some great memories in our early years! Memories that i will hold dear until we meet up again. Sending love to the family. Thinking of you all. We lost a good one there...
from: Jim Wolfeon: 03-04-2026

My deepest condolences to Kurt’s family. He was the nicest guy in high school and after.
Fly high, Kurt. You will be missed.
from: Carol Snow Marchegiani on: 03-04-2026

A beautiful tribute to a kind and caring man - Kurt with a heart of gold and a smile that would light up the room. You will be missed at our 55th Reunion this year but we know that you and all of our lost classmates will be celebrating with us. Fly with the angels Kurt.
from: Gail Rondeau Heberton: 03-04-2026

You always had a kind word to say to me especially when I needed it. it was awesome having you as a classmate. We had fun at the 50th reunion and I will miss you at the 55th this year. I hope you and fellow classmates who have passed with will celebrate in Heaven.
Condolences to your family. Remember he may be gone but he is always with you.
Love and prayers to all of you.
from: Mari (St.Cyr) Latsenon: 03-04-2026

Sorry to hear this sad news about you Kurt. You were a wonderful friendly classmate. RIP Condolences to your family.
from: Alex Fedotowskyon: 03-04-2026

Jinx, I'm very sad to hear of the passing of your husband. I know you were a great matched pair and had a terrific life together. Please take care.
from: Grace Aspinallon: 03-04-2026

Dear JInx and family,
My heart goes out to you with the loss of Kurt. Please accept my sincere condolences.

Carl Villanueva
from: on: 03-04-2026

Our condolences to the family, Kurt was a good man and a great teammate.
from: John&Anita Pratton: 03-04-2026

My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
from: Jim Holmeson: 03-04-2026

My deepest condolences to the VanSteemburg family ! May your memories bring you smiles in the days to come.
from: Maureen Taft Mooreon: 03-04-2026

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