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Donna Y. Bernardi, 74

CLARKSBURG, Mass. — Donna Y. Bernardi, 74, passed away on March 19, 2026, at Garden Ranch Assisted Living in Colorado Springs, Colo.

The oldest child of the late Donald and Doris Primmer, she was born on June 20, 1951, and grew up in Clarksburg, Massachusetts. A graduate of Drury High School and the Burbank Hospital School of Nursing, she practiced private duty nursing at Beth Israel Deaconess Hospital in Boston before returning to the Berkshires to start her family.

Donna remained passionate about providing quality medical care, working as a registered nurse in the Emergency Room at North Adams Regional Hospital for nearly four decades until her retirement.

Elected to serve on the Clarksburg School Committee in the late 1980s and early 1990s, Donna was also an avid reader who promoted love of reading and community as an elected trustee of the Clarksburg Town Library and a member of the Friends of the Clarksburg Town Library until she moved to Colorado.

Donna's greatest source of joy and fulfillment was her family. She raised three fiercely independent children, and she spent her life supporting their varied academic, artistic, and athletic interests. For herself, Donna found a deep and lasting solace in the ocean, traveling to Maine as often as possible to enjoy the salt air, the rocky coast, and the lighthouses. In her 60s, with her children grown, Donna embraced a new opportunity for herself, moving to Colorado Springs to be closer to her daughter Sarah and her family.

Donna is survived by her daughters, Kathryn Barnhardt and her husband, William; Sarah McAfee and her husband, Ryan; and her son, Christopher Bernardi and his wife, Nicole; and her siblings: Beverly Kirby; Suzanne Cahoon and her husband, Wayne; and William Primmer and his wife, Patricia. She leaves her five grandchildren, who were the light of her life: Reed, Chase, and Oliver McAfee, and Gabriel and Josephine Bernardi. There are also many surviving nieces, nephews, grandnieces, and grandnephews whom Donna adored.

At Donna's request, a small gathering will be held by the ocean for the family at a later date.

Recollections & Sympathy For the Family
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Bev and Donna’s entire family, She was a joy to know and always greeted with a sweet smile. I’ll keep Donna close to heart.
from: Melinda Kirbyon: 03-25-2026

Kathryn, Sarah, and Chris,
I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I have so many good memories of her. Especially the time she videod Kathryn at bat during softball. I don’t even have words to tell you how sorry I am.
Linda Hurlbut
from: on: 03-23-2026

So very sorry for all of your loss. May she rest in peace
from: Carol Greenbush on: 03-21-2026

So sorry to hear of Donna's passing. I worked with her at NARH. She was a dedicated nurse who always cared deeply for her patients. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
from: Lorraine Mancusoon: 03-21-2026

loved working many years with Donna in the ER..as well as our friendship and family times
from: Peg Maronion: 03-21-2026

Donna was the most amazing nurse to work with, a wrath of information that she readily shared with me and I am a better nurse for being able to learn from her experience and example.
from: Kelley Wilsonon: 03-21-2026

I’m saddened to see Donna has passed, she was good friends with my sister Kathy and we’ve known her for years. My heart and prayers go out to the family.
Dave & Sue Emery
from: on: 03-21-2026

Beverly and Donna's entire family< I was so sorry to read of Donna's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
from: Pam Kidderon: 03-20-2026

Kathryn, Sarah, Christopher & families I am so very sorry to read of your mom's passing. I got to know her both personally and professionally as such a caring and compassionate person. May your many memories console you at this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
from: Sharron Mirkeon: 03-20-2026

i worked at the hospital many years and knew donna from the er she was very nice to everyone
from: jody pecoron: 03-20-2026

Kathryn, Sarah and Chris,
So sorry for your loss. Your mom was a very special person. So many memories. Your words are a testament of your love.
The door was always open to friends and family and especially your friends. Dan and Aimee always came home with great memories of their visits to your home.
Her family was her greatest gift.
from: Mary Tanneron: 03-20-2026

I am so sorry to read this Donna was a colleague and a friend. We worked together and raised our children around the same time she always gave me great advice . She will be missed my deepest condolences to her family !
from: Linda Williamson: 03-20-2026

sorry to hear of Donna’s passing. She was a vocal team player in the ER where we worked together for several years. The family is in my thoughts and prayers.
from: diane gon: 03-20-2026

Kathryn, Sarah and Christopher, Mike and I were sad to read about your mom’s passing. May she rest in peace. Our prayers and hugs go out to you and your families. She was a good person and a wonderful mom, and a very special nurse. God bless
from: Mike and Laurie Kuziaon: 03-20-2026

To Kathry, Sarah, Christopher and Donna's family, We are so saddened to hear of your mother's passing. Donna was a great neighbor, wonderful nurse andcsweet lady! We send our deepest condolences and prayers to you all! ?
from: Terry & Phil Vivorion: 03-20-2026

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