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Kathleen Marie (Pires) Wheeler, 72

NORTH ADAMS, Mass. —  Kathleen Marie (Pires) Wheeler of North Adams passed away unexpectedly on October 2, 2026. She was surrounded by her family, of which she was the anchor.

Kathi was born on August 2,1954 in Pittsfield, MA. She was the devoted daughter of the late Joseph and Elizabeth (Killackey) Pires of Pittsfield. She was raised in Pittsfield and graduated from Taconic High School in 1972. She went on to earn her degree in Nursing from Berkshire Community College and began a long and meaningful career as a Registered Nurse. During her career she provided care to many patients at Berkshire Medical Center, Nassif’s Pharmacy, and the Cataract and Laser Center. Her compassion, dedication, and instinct for caring for others was evident in everything she did.

Kathi was the most wonderful wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt and friend. Her greatest gift was caring for everyone around her. She had a remarkable way of making others feel cared for, welcomed, seen, and never alone. Her beauty, both inside and out, was apparent to everyone she encountered. Nursing was more than a career to her. Caregiving was deeply rooted in who she was. She was everyone’s biggest advocate and supporter.

She leaves behind her husband of 50 years, W. Mark Wheeler, and her four children - Christie and her husband, Pat Ingoldsby, Marissa and her husband, Greg Colcord, Kelly Wheeler, and Bobby Wheeler. She was a loving “Amma” to her four grandchildren, Braden and Ashlyn Ingoldsby, and Lane and Annie Colcord. She also leaves her sisters, Maureen Iafeliece and Bonnie Sinopoli, and brothers Alex Pires and Joey Pires, along with many nieces and nephews.

Some of her most special days were spent enjoying weekends away with Mark in Saratoga Springs, NY. They shared a love of horse racing, and those trips became something they looked forward to together, filled with good times, laughter, and the simple joy of being together with friends and family.

Kathi loved serving patients alongside her many amazing colleagues, sharing meals and moments with her beautiful friends, and most importantly, any opportunity she had to spend with her family at their home. They had many afternoons and evenings spent around the kitchen counter, filled with laughter and love. There was nothing she loved more than having her entire family close. She created a home where everyone was always welcomed and cared for.

NOTICE: Visiting hours will be held on Friday, October 9th from 11:00a.m. - 2:00p.m. on Friday at Flynn & Dagnoli Funeral Home at 521 West Main St. in North Adams, MA, with a short service following at 2:00 pm at the same location. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Berkshire Visiting Nurses Association (BVNA) Client Needs Fund. To add to the Book of Memories, please visit www.flynndagnolifuneralhomes.com

 


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I met Kathi at the Cataract & Laser Center. She was of kind nature and soul, and you always felt the warmth of her personality. She could be relied on in any situation, the ultimate professional, an integral part of the daily routine at the CLC. I will miss her sparkling blue eyes, smile and the friendship she always showed. My deepest condolences to her family.

from: Linda J. Torraon: 10-06-2026

My deepest condolences to Kathi’s family and loved ones\. Kathi was truly an inspiration, and there are simply not enough words to describe what an incredible woman she was\. Her kindness, love, and devotion touched so many lives and will be deeply missed\. May her memory and the impact she made on those around her live on forever.
from: Shannon Desreuisseauon: 10-06-2026

To know Kathi was to love her, and you couldn’t help but love her right away. I feel incredibly lucky to have known her as a kid and even more honored to have had the privilege of working beside her for so many years as an adult.
Kathi was so much more than a coworker to so many of us. She was the glue that held our center together. She made it feel like home—a home away from home—and her presence made a difference to all of us.
My deepest condolences go out to Kathi’s family and everyone who loved her. She will be deeply missed and never forgotten.
from: Stefanie Tatroon: 10-06-2026

Mark & family, our deepest condolences to you and your family. We have loved your family for many years. You were all AMAZING to us. We will never forget your kind souls. ?
from: MELISSA & JOE GIRARD on: 10-06-2026

Mark & family, our deepest condolences to you and your family. We have loved your family for many years. You were all AMAZING to us. We will never forget your kind souls. ?
from: MELISSA & JOE GIRARD on: 10-06-2026

Mark and family we are so very sorry to see this. Sending peace and love to you all.
from: Nelson and Anne Gamacheon: 10-06-2026

My condolences and prayers for family and friends. Kathy was a wonderful person and friend to all.
from: Debbie Riceon: 10-06-2026

Our sincere condolences to Kathi’s family and friends.She was a wonderful friend and was the backbone of her family .Rest in Peace . Sincerely Rick and Linda Williams
from: Linda Williamson: 10-06-2026

Our sincere condolences to Kathi’s family and friends.She was a wonderful friend and was the backbone of her family .Rest in Peace . Sincerely Rick and Linda Williams
from: Linda Williamson: 10-06-2026

I can not find the words to express how deeply saddened I am to hear the news of Kathi’s passing I worked with Kathi at the Cataract Center. She was as mentor to me when I began working at the center. So kind and supportive. She was the rock of the center. A light and gift. Her gentle kindness touched everyone she worked with and every patient she cared for. My heartfelt condolences to her family. Fly high Kathi.
from: Darlene Blanchette on: 10-06-2026

Mark my deepest sympathy, sorry for your loss
from: John Choquetteon: 10-06-2026

Kathi was a sweet, calm presence at the CLC. She was a friend to all her coworkers. A wonderful caregiver, and a wonderful wife, mother and grandmother. This is a perfect picture of her with her sparkling eyes and smile. I will miss our breaks and the countless number of funny personal stories we would tell. So so sorry for her loss, we will all miss her so much!
from: Deb Woodon: 10-06-2026

She was an integral part of the team at the CLC, so smart, kind, caring, and had a wonderful sense of humor. Her passing is a deeply saddening loss for all of us. She will be greatly missed. My prayers go out to her family, wishing them peace and healing during this difficult time.
from: Kim LaBonteon: 10-06-2026

My sincere condolences to the family and friends and all who loved her. I worked with Kathi at the Cataract Center. It truly was an honor to work with such a compassionate, kind and loving soul. She truly deeply cared about everyone. She left us way too soon. I will miss her smile, her light and her grace. Rest in peace my friend. Sending love and hugs to her family. Sincerely, Michele
from: Michele Burroon: 10-06-2026

It is difficult to find the right words for someone who meant so much to so many of us.

I had the privilege of working alongside Kathi for many years, and she was so much more than a wonderful nurse. She brought kindness, warmth, humor, and a calming presence into the OR, and somehow made even the busiest days a little better simply by being there.

Over these past few days, I have found myself wishing for the simplest thing .. that Kathi could just walk through those doors again, smile, and work beside us like she always did. I think that says more about how much she meant to us than anything else I could write.

Kathi spent so much of her life caring for others. I am grateful beyond words to have known her, worked beside her, and called her my friend.

My deepest condolences to Mark and the entire family. Kathi will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered.
from: Haytham Mohamedon: 10-06-2026

Kathy was my calming spirit at the cataract and laser Center, we spent so many days and cases together.She was such an important part of the center. Her skill and personality was so apparent every week that I worked with her and we will miss her dearly.
from: Greg Shouldiceon: 10-06-2026

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