LEE, Mass. — A class that's had to adapt to live this past year is finally breaking free of a virus that's turned their world upside down.
So, asked Asa Stone, salutatorian of the Lee High School class of 2021, what's next?
"We can never be certain of the answer but we can have hope that we will learn and we will grow, we will come out of the other side stronger," she told her 59 classmates, friends and family gathered on the high school's field on a hot Saturday afternoon.
The last day for the seniors at the school felt a lot like that fateful March 13, 2020, she said, "the day that our lives changed forever. The day that we no longer were living in normal systems but were instead stuck in this purgatory wondering what's next?"
"Right now we are at a crossroads, we are at an intersection in our lives, and we are in the driver's seat this time," Stone said. "Now we're not stuck inside, stuck with our families. This time we have the power to change for the better. Not change because we have to, because we have to stay alive. But because we want to. We can because we are young adults in control of our lives."
She said their generation is facing other plagues, like school shootings, racism and gender and economic inequality. It's being "stifled by these oppressive traditions."
"We are also the generation of serious change, of the ambition and resourcefulness we have all exhibited over this past year, which we can use to free ourselves of social viruses — and we will overcome them," said Stone. "We will break free and we will change just like we did this past year."
Valedictorian Cindy Ni cautioned them not to get hung up on perfection as they write the next chapter of their story. She told how as a child she'd written her first novel — 50 pages — and then moved onto her first trilogy. But as she got older and her vocabulary expanded, her focus was less on the story and more on tweaking elements to make it perfect.
"I had spent too much time worrying about all the little things, and in the end, I had accomplished nothing," she said. "I feared delivering anything less than perfection and at the end, I delivered a blank notebook, or No. 2 pencil with a non-existent eraser, and a trash bag filled with crumpled pieces of paper."
She said she learned some of the most valuable lessons in high school: that doing everything perfect for the first time is impossible.
"We can purposely choose to only do the things we know we will excel at but then we never learn and never grow in life," Ni said. "And is that not the point of high school, college of life in general? To learn from our past mistakes, our struggle, the very thing that have challenged us to grow?"
The class would be walking up to get their diplomas and it didn't matter if their ties were askew or their hair not perfect or their clothes wrinkled, she said.
"We stick out one hand for the diploma, the other for a handshake, and then walk toward the future. Either way, our end goal is to move forward. And we must look to the future. ... Because no matter what obstacles may be scattered along our path, we know not to count the failures, but instead, cherish the times we stumbled, but got up again with our heads held high. ...
"I encourage you to greet whatever challenges you might face in the next chapter of your life with a humble heart, a steadfast spirit and the utmost confidence moving forward in your story."
As class president, Ni also gave Ivy Oration, the passing of a symbolic ivy plant to the president of the next class, Emma Puntin.
Nicholas Langley led the Pledge of Allegiance and Madailien Demler and Teresa Navin performed "The Star-Spangled Banner." A recording of the high school chorus singing "I Lived" by One Direction was broadcast because of pandemic restriction.
Superintendent Michael Richard of the Lee and Tyringham superintendency union used the theme of change and adaptation in his address and, bringing in his passion for much, suggested the graduates take a listen to Jimmy Buffett's "Changes In Latitudes, Changes In Attitudes."
He encouraged the class to embrace this most difficult year, not just for the adversity they had adapted to but for the dedication of their teachers who taught them the best way they could, providing them with an education and skills so that they can be the change in their community.
"You are equipped to handle anything and everything world throws your way," Richard said. "There is a lot that is in front of you so be prepared to embrace change. Sometimes it'll be a latitude. Other times it'll be an attitude. But don't forget about the gratitude. Be thankful for what you have and what you've earned."
Principal Gregg Brighenti said he'd had trouble coming up with some words of wisdom to pass on and inspired by Friday night's sunset.
"Sunsets are reminders that everything around us and even within us is always changing. And then it's not worth trying to stop those changes," he said. After a year in which the students had proven themselves beyond any expectations, he offered wishes — that they find joy and peace, compassion, and patience to work through the bumpy parts of the road ahead.
"And I wish that you find the time to watch the sunsets. Always remember that a little ways to the east that same son is starting to rise again as a new day and a new adventure begins. Now go out there and make us proud."
Teresa M. Navin, selected to speak by the class, recalled inside jokes and events that many of her classmates had shared since entering Lee Elementary School, situated on the hill above them. Moving to the middle and high school was "going downhill," she said to chuckles from the graduates.
"Growing up with you all it's been a pleasure, and I can't wait to see what the future holds for you, all of you," she said. "Spread love and tolerance, and most importantly, stay frosty my friends."
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Community Hero of the Month: Officer Joshua Tracy
By Sabrina DammsiBerkshires Staff
LEE, Mass.—Lee Police Department patrolman Joshua Tracy has been selected for the February Community Hero of the Month.
The Community Hero of the Month series runs for the next 9 months in partnership with Haddad Auto. Nominated community members and organizations have gone above and beyond to make a positive impact on their community.
Tracy has been an officer in the Berkshires for seven years, working for multiple departments including North Adams, Pittsfield, and as of approximately 5 months ago, Lee.
Prior to being an officer, Tracy served 12 years in the Army National Guard. He became an officer when he left the service because it not only allowed him to help others, which he knew he enjoyed, but allowed him to utilize his military training.
When on a call, Tracy knows he is likely walking into someone's worst day, which is why he strives to be a dependable person for the people out in the community, he said.
"I think the thing that I think about the most of making an impact is showing up on these calls that we go on and de-escalating and calming the situation down," Tracy said.
"You know, most of the time when we show up, it's because someone's having one of their worst days or just a really bad day."
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