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Vera H. Socha, 73

CHESHIRE, Mass. — Vera H. (Janowycz) Socha, 73 of Cheshire, died after a long journey with a difficult disease, she was in her home with her son close by, on Saturday, Feb. 15, 2025.

She was born March 15, 1951 in a displaced person's camp in Munich, Germany to Ukrainian parents displaced by war. Within a year after Vera's birth, the young family relocated to USA, first arriving in Cleveland, Ohio. After a small number of years in Cleveland, they discovered the Berkshires in Western Massachusetts and relocated one last time to Cheshire, where they started a family dairy farm. It was in the Berkshires she had the vast majority of her schooling, graduating from Adams Memorial High School in 1969. Living on the family dairy farm gave Vera a direct connection with animals, plants and nature early on in life, and the Berkshires also was where she began to make life long friends that know her even to this day.

Vera went to UMASS Amherst and obtained a Bachelor's degree in medical-nursing skills, graduating in 1973. She went on to apply her schooling in several different ways. Earlier on she worked in Pittsfield with Family Planning/Tapestry Health. Eventually, she went on to work in a doctor's office helping patients with health assessments the doctor ordered. Looking for a new change she went to work for a Life Insurance Agency, which became an adventurous and unique job for her. In this position Vera was able to travel throughout western Massachusetts meeting people who were applying for life insurance and doing health analytics on them as part of their application process. The job let her explore very deeply the unique and beautiful landscapes and ecology of western Massachusetts. Many people came to see her as making their experience much nicer than they thought it would be due to her humorous and genuine personality.

There was a creativeness to Vera, too. This creativeness came out the most through her knitting and working with gardens and potted plants/flower. Her knitted items would range from simple hats and mittens, to complex sweaters and blankets. She became quite a factory for creating knitted products, so much so, that for some years Vera sold her knitted items at local shops with people purchasing all items regularly. Vera also occasionally participated in knitting hats for premature born babies to stay warm, and any chance she'd get to knit someone something she would make excuse to do it. She also had a special connection with plants, which allowed her to create beautiful gardens around her home in Cheshire as well as potted plants/flowers for inside the house. She had a certain kind of vision for placement of what kind of species of plant in what area, so that both the plant would thrive as well as be aesthetically pleasing to see at the same time. And her son gives credit to her skill reflected in his own understanding of plant ecology, gardening and landscape aesthetics.

Vera was interested in the silence and natural essence of the Earth, she enjoyed rustling leaves and their smell in the autumn when she went on her walks and hikes in them. In the snow, she enjoyed snowshoeing and always made time to commune with the natural world regularly. She continued to make connection with the natural world in whatever ways she could, even once she became much more limited due to her difficult disease she was diagnosed with in 2014.

Her other interests throughout her life included travel (both local, nationally and internationally), reading books and enjoying visiting with friends. She practiced keeping these activities in her life as long as she could. She said "I believe in the power of the written word." Over the years, she had developed a small little library of her own at home being the devoted reader she was.

Although Vera struggled with a difficult disease, she remained to embody a persistent positivity that did not stop even in her final days, and this indeed is one of her lasting lessons to us all. Her enormously great sense of humor everyone got touched with was a gift too. And she always said; "I'm going kicking and screaming" and it was true! At moment of her death, the most powerful winter storm in many years began!

Vera had requested there be no calling hours and no services for her. This summer of 2025 there will be a Celebration of Life made for her TBA.

Memorial donations can go to Berkshire Visiting Nurse Association (413) 447-2862 - berkshirehealthsystems.org/programs-and-services/home-care/
    
Vera H. (Janowycz) Socha leaves behind her longtime friend Tom Granger of Adams and her feline friend Emma. She also leaves behind and her son, Eric Socha, who she claimed in her final weeks to be her hero, and the finest person she ever knew.

Recollections & Sympathy For the Family
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Eric, I am so sorry to just be learning of your Mons passing. We worked together for years at Family Planning and she became a mentor and close friend to me. I think of her often and was just sharing with someone this weekend about the time she did my 1st Reiki treatment. The love she shared and the lessons she taught me will forever be gifts I will cherish. I know she thought the world of you. I’ve never met a mother so proud of her child than she was of you. I pray you know that and continue to feel her spirit and presence with you always.
Give and Take Care
With Much Love,
Shannon
from: Shannon Gallagheron: 05-06-2025

Peace n blessed be~
from: Carol Trudeauon: 03-12-2025

Dear Eric,
Thinking of you during this difficult time. Find comfort in knowing you were there so her difficult days . Peace to you .

Julie and Keith
from: Julie Blanchardon: 03-08-2025

So sorry to hear about Vera today. I hadnt seen her & Tom in many years as they used to visit me at my booth at the Bennington Garlic Festival. Shes all new again, happy,watching over her loved ones & many friends. You'll all meet again some day! May God bless you all at this very difficult time.
Sincerely
Suzy Gilman King
from: Suzy Gilman Kingon: 02-25-2025

Dear Eric, I knew your mom as a fellow Easter Cheshire neighbor. Riding on the bus to Cheshire School and later to Adams Memorial HS. She was a kind person and a good student. Rest in peace Vera.
from: Vera Janawicz Socha on: 02-24-2025

Our sincere sympathy .
from: Lucy Czajaon: 02-24-2025

Eric, I’m so very sorry for the loss of your mom! She was such a beautiful spirit. The earth was a better place because of her being here.
Julie
from: Julie Dzbenskion: 02-24-2025

I knew Vera as a high school classmate. I never saw her after we graduated and I moved away. She was a wonderful, fun and great person.
from: Norm Kowalskion: 02-24-2025

Oh I'm so sad to hear this news. I was always so happy to see Vera come into my yarn shop, and watching her fight her illness was inspiring. God rest your soul Vera. My sincerest condolences to all who loved her.
from: Beth Phelpson: 02-24-2025

Eric, Your Mom was such an amazing person that I had so much fun getting to know at Tapestry Health. She adored you and I am sure that your spirit bond is timeless. You will find her everywhere in your life, and she will continue to show you her love and support. Thanks to you and Tom for all that you did to support her during her final years. I know how much courage that requires. Sending love and warm hugs, Jen and Ron
from: Jennifer Munozon: 02-24-2025

Vera was such a spirit full of energy and joy. I feel fortunate to have known her and been present to witness her love of the earth and her care for all beings. She was a strong women role model. I will miss so much about her, but I have wonderful memories to enjoy. May her spirit live on in all of us who were lucky to know Vera.
from: Kate Egnaczak on: 02-23-2025

Eric, Sorry to hear of "Mom's" passing. Eric, your dedication and caring manner by which you showed your everlasting love to your Mother's plight was honorable. Blessed be Vera's memories which all that knew her hold firm. Joe
from: Joseph Nowakon: 02-23-2025

Thank you for the memories. A part of Vera is in all who knew her. Kocham ci?. <3
from: Theresa Zelazoon: 02-22-2025

To Eric: I knew the your mother and her parents when they lived in Canton, Ohio for about five years, before they moved to Massachusetts. We lost touch with each other until four years ago and have been communicating by e-mail and texting. Even though we haven't seen each other in person, we got to support each other, laugh, and remember the good old days. She will be greatly missed by me, but deeply by you, her pride and joy! Sending you my deepest sympathy and love. From: Christina Malanij Toney
from: Christina Malanij Toneyon: 02-21-2025

My dearest Vera!
I will miss you deeply. Even as a cousin you were as close as a sister could ever be. I will cherish all the wonderful memories of our times together and love you and Eric now and forever. ?? ????????? ??
Love Lidia
from: on: 02-21-2025

I first had the pleasure of meeting Vera back in 2015, thanks to her son, and my friend Eric. The moment I stepped into her home, I was enveloped by a warmth that felt like home—a sanctuary that radiated comfort and joy. Vera exuded a vibrant spirit, marked by her playful wit and a marvelous eccentricity that shone through her pastel purple-dyed hair and eclectic wardrobe filled with the coolest accessories. Her living room was a beautiful chaos of knitting magazines and colorful yarn, each thread telling a story of creativity and passion. The memory of picking purple wildflower bouquets for her on their homestead, fills my heart with such joy, a sweet reminder of my feelings for her.

What truly stood out to me as a mother was the deep bond she shared with Eric. Their connection was palpable, a beautiful dance of unwavering support and love that I admired deeply. Eric devotedly cared for his mother for so many years, and the trust they built was something truly special. It is hard to write a memorial for her without mentioning him because of how close they were. Vera was a true warrior queen in every sense. While her absence will be felt profoundly, I find solace in knowing that her spirit will live forever ?
from: Samantha Phillipson: 02-21-2025

A well written tribute, reflective of the special person Vera was. A kind and giving woman whom the world needs more of, I'll miss hearing her beep and wave as she passed by my home. My condolences to Eric and her extended friends and family, may she now be able to rest in peace.
from: Jason Turner on: 02-21-2025

Vera was a mighty force. Eric, I am so sorry. You are a wonderful and kind son. You took great care of her. There is alot of Vera in you. She was so proud to be your Mom. May she live on in you.
from: Dede Taft on: 02-21-2025

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