Abbigail Amuso and Kendall Winston, members of the Pittsfield High orchestra, play before the ceremony.
PITTSFIELD - The Berkshire County chapter of Mothers Against Drunk Driving closed its doors permanently many years ago, but that didn't stop more than 100 area residents from gathering at the 20th annual MADD Vigil on Sunday afternoon.
But one person was noticeably absent.
"I just couldn't make it this year," Joyce Wrend, a former Berkshire County MADD coordinator, said from her home on Sunday night. "I just wasn't feeling up to it."
Wrend, whose own daughter, Allison, was killed by a drunken driver in 1990, was the driving force behind maintaining the annual vigil after taking the helm of the organization in 1994. Through hard work and dedication, Wrend helped keep the organization afloat for several years, working to not only support those devastated by the death of a family member but also to promote safety education in area schools.
Before retiring from the position in the late '90s, Wrend's main goal was to keep up the annual vigil, an event she regarded as a necessary element in the healing process.
"In the beginning, it was really hard to go to the vigil. It's not an easy thing to do, especially for the newcomers," she said. "It's a way to show respect for the families. We want to send the message that this is how we're coming together and honoring families."
Now coordinated by the district attorney's office, the vigil still brings together diverse members of the community to a single place where they can remember and celebrate the lives of cherished friends and family members. Lighting candles to symbolize each life extinguished too early by a drunken driver, those gathered at St. Stephen's Episcopal Church were treated to music by the St. Joseph's Central High School chorus and readings by area high school students.
"This vigil has become a way for different families of different faiths and different backgrounds to gather together to remember and honor their loved ones," said District Attorney David E. Capeless at the ceremony. "This is the one gift that can be given to the one who is gone - to come together and remember how they lived."
Held each year around the holidays, the vigil is meant to inspire hope and goodwill in those in attendance.
"It's a tough time of year for everyone. For some, this vigil gives them something to look forward to instead of just the sadness," said Capeless.
For Wrend, the vigil is an opportunity to remember both her daughter and the years she dedicated to helping other families like herself and she won't miss another year, if she can help it.
"I gave so much for so long," she said. "You'll see me there next year."
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Lanesborough Town Election Sees Expanded Select Board
By Breanna SteeleiBerkshires Staff
LANESBOROUGH, Mass. — The Select Board will now have five people serving with the addition of two more board members elected on Tuesday.
Juli Baker, Jeffery Walters and incumbent Michael Murphy took the three seats up for election in a five-way race, winning a three-year, two-year and one-year seat respectively based on the number of votes received. Out of the running were Scott Graves and Christian Halley.
Out of the more than 2,600 registered voters, 328 cast ballots Tuesday in the annual town election, or about a 12 percent turnout.
The current board consists of Chair Deborah Maynard, Jason Breault, and Murphy. The new board was voted to have five members back in 2024 at the annual town meeting after resident Kristen Tool filed a citizens petition to expand it. The home-rule petition was sent to the Legislature and was approved late last year.
Murphy was running for a third term. He said he is not done with his work on the board and wants to see more projects done like the mall. He was voted back on with 168 votes for a one-year term.
"I feel like I've put in a good six years, but I do feel like there's a couple things that I'd like to see through that are still, you know, somewhere either on the front burner or the back burner," he said. "I'll talk about the mall, I'd love to play a role in seeing how that plays out. What's moved to the back burner after being on the front burner for a couple years is the need for a new police station. I still believe there's a need for that."
He is proud to be a part of the board that will expand its members and to have helped the town have a better atmosphere and attitude toward its residents.
"My proudest accomplishment is getting a better home for our Police Department, one that they need very well," Murphy said. "Some of the things that surprised me a little bit, but that I think I had an impact on, is improving the atmosphere within the Town Hall building. I think that's the best way to put it. There was a time, and I heard from many, many people in the community when I ran that I was surprised to hear how they didn't feel welcomed, they didn't feel comfortable, and I think that that attitude and that atmosphere has changed, and I've had something to do that."
Baker won the three-year term with 258 votes. Baker has been in Lanesborough since 2021 and has been participating on the Finance Committee, which she will now leave to be on the Select Board.
She ran because she felt she could help with her experience on many other boards and her ability to be a leader and see both sides of every story.
"I've had a lot of input into other groups like the planning board and the zoning board, and a lot of the issues that have been happening in town, and I feel like I have a very level head about very contentious issues, I look at all sides of every issue and cut through the emotions and get to the bottom of what the issue is and what's best for Lanesborough," she said.
Key issues she plans to address include managing tax increases that she has done with the finance board, addressing the short-term rental bylaw, and resolving the stalemate over the mall property to find the best way to get real value from the property.
Walters took the two-year term with 215 votes. Walters has been a resident for 26 years and owns Snap-On Tools dealership. He said he looks forward to working with the board and says one of the key issues he has heard is the taxes and wants to help maintain the residents taxes. He said he has been talking about running for about eight years and the bigger board helped push him to put his name on the ballot.
"I said I would like to run for a selectman. We're going to a five person select board, so I thought it'd be a good time. Being a small business owner, I feel I have something to contribute to add to the people that we have already in the Select Board," he said.
Graves said he wanted to be on the board to help others in the community feel welcome as he did not when he first came.
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